19 months single, and I can honestly say that mentally and emotionally I don't want or need a partner. Don't keep meeting up in the hopes of finding the closure that you may or may not eventually get. Humans always want to play hard to get. However, when they find out that the one who likes them has stopped running after them, they wonder why and pursue after that person. After my last one, I told myself I needed to work on me first. Make the break a clean one. "Staying in touch just prolongs the agony of the breakup," says Gandhi. Well, this is also good for moving on after breakup though, especially if you don’t want to try the first suggestion.